Friday, February 20, 2009

hot newsss

Second semester had just started. This time the subjects are more difficult and wide than the previous one. Currently studying about human embryology including spermatogenesis..fertilization and other things that related to it. I assume that this topic will be getting difficult when we go deeply later on. So, from now on I shud have started reading all the notes before everything gets in too deeply which may cause a trouble of knowing nuting!!. Well, talking about embryology..and so on..pregnancy mainly… I spot a hot hot news from The Sun Uk just now which exclusively related to pregnancy.

u must be asking whose pics is this??? and why they are in this post??

Surprisingly..or shockingly…..

It was about a Baby-faced boy Alfie Patten is father at 13… MasyaAllah.. (seb bek non-muslim).

Probably this is da second time of youngsters having a baby such an early age!

But still, this Alfie cannot beat Sean Stewart whose having a baby at the early age of 12 yrs old..

To know more about it,check out the article below…

Baby-faced Alfie, who is 13 but looks more like eight, became a father four days ago when his girlfriend Chantelle Steadman gave birth to 7lb 3oz Maisie Roxanne.

He told how he and Chantelle, 15, decided against an abortion after discovering she was pregnant.

The shy lad, whose voice has not yet broken, said: “I thought it would be good to have a baby.

“I didn’t think about how we would afford it. I don’t really get pocket money. My dad sometimes gives me £10.”

Alfie, who is just 4ft tall, added: “When my mum found out, I thought I was going to get in trouble. We wanted to have the baby but were worried how people would react.

“I didn’t know what it would be like to be a dad. I will be good, though, and care for it.”

Alfie's story, broken exclusively by The Sun today has sparked a huge political storm with Tory leader David Cameron saying: "When I saw these pictures this morning, I just thought how worrying that in Britain today children are having children.

"I hope that somehow these children grow up into responsible parents but the truth is parenthood is just not something they should be thinking about right now."

Secret

PM Gordon Brown refused to comment directly on the story but said it was important that the Government did all it could to prevent teenage pregnancies.

Alfie’s dad Dennis yesterday told how the lad does not really understand the enormity of his situation — but seemed desperate to be a devoted and responsible father.

He wanted to be the first to hold Maisie after the hospital birth. He tenderly kisses the baby and gives her a bottle.

And Dennis, 45, said: “He could have shrugged his shoulders and sat at home on his Playstation. But he has been at the hospital every day.”

Maisie was conceived after Chantelle and Alfie — just 12 at the time — had a single night of unprotected sex.

They found out about the baby when Chantelle was 12 weeks pregnant.

But they kept it a secret until six weeks later when Chantelle’s mum Penny, 38, became suspicious about her weight gain and confronted her.

After that Alfie’s family told only those closest to them for fear he would be “demonised” at school.

Chantelle gave birth to Maisie on Monday night after a five-hour labour at Eastbourne Hospital, East Sussex.

Last night she told The Sun: “I’m tired after the birth. I was nervous after going into labour but otherwise I was quite excited.”

hantelle told how she discovered she was expecting after going to her GP with “really bad” stomach pains. She said: “Me and Alfie went. The doctor asked me whether we had sex. I said yes and he said I should do a pregnancy test. He did the test and said I was pregnant. I started crying and didn’t know what to do.

“He said I should tell my mum but I was too scared.

“We didn’t think we would need help from our parents. You don’t really think about that when you find out you are pregnant. You just think your parents will kill you.”

But Penny figured out what was going on after buying Chantelle a T-shirt which revealed her swelling tum.

Chantelle admitted she and Alfie — who are both being supported by their parents — would be accused of being grossly irresponsible. She said: “We know we made a mistake but I wouldn’t change it now. We will be good loving parents.

“I have started a church course and I am going to do work experience helping other young mums.

“I’ll be a great mum and Alfie will be a great dad.”

Chantelle and Maisie were released from hospital yesterday. They are living with Penny, Chantelle’s jobless dad Steve, 43, and her five brothers in a rented council house in Eastbourne. The family live on benefits. Alfie, who lives on an estate across town with mum Nicola, 43, spends most of his time at the Steadmans’ house.

He is allowed to stay overnight and even has a school uniform there so he can go straight to his classes in the morning.

Alfie’s dad, who is separated from Nicola, believes the lad is scared deep down.

He said: “Everyone is telling him things and it’s going round in his head. It hasn’t really dawned on him. He hasn’t got a clue of what the baby means and can’t explain how he feels. All he knows is mum and dad will help.

“When you mention money his eyes look away. And she is reliant on her mum and dad. It’s crazy. They have no idea what lies ahead.”

Dennis, who works for a vehicle recovery firm, described Alfie as “a typical 13-year-old boy”.

He said: “He loves computer games, boxing and Manchester United.” Dennis, who has fathered nine kids, told how he was “gobsmacked” when he discovered Alfie was to be a dad, too.

He said: “When I spoke to him he started crying. He said it was the first time he’d had sex, that he didn’t know what he was doing and of the complications that could come.

“I will talk to him again and it will be the birds and the bees talk. Some may say it’s too late but he needs to understand so there is not another baby.”

Lovely

Chantelle’s mum said: “I told her it was lovely to have the baby but I wish it was in different circumstances. We have five children already so it’s a big financial responsibility. But we are a family and will pull together and get through.

“She’s my daughter. I love her and she will want for nothing.”

Last night Michaela Aston, of the anti-abortion Christian charity LIFE, said: “We commend these teenagers for their courage in bringing their child into the world.

“At the same time this is symptomatic of the over-sexualisation of our youngsters and shows the policy of value-free sex education just isn’t working.”

Today Sussex Police and the local council's children services said they have investigated the case and pledged continued support for the young parents.

Britain’s youngest known father is Sean Stewart. He became a dad at 12 when the girl next door, 15-year-old Emma Webster, gave birth in Sharnbrook, Bedford, in 1998. They split six months later.

But I noticed that, mostly their gf were around 15 yrs old. Both Alfie and Sean were dating with 15 yrs old girls. Urmm..

Moral values…

I’m sooo thanks that I am Muslim which teach me a lot about life including legitimate and forbidden by religious law. Also those thing that we can or cannot do based on Al-Quran and As-Sunnah. In Islam having such a random sex with unknown….without any approved relations..without marrying is totally definitely forbidden by religious law. Our religion doesn’t or never teach us to do all those disgraceful..contempt things. Nauzubillah. If any of u come across on having this things..plssss…repent!!!! u ..we..should not ever..and ever..bringing ourselves towards this contempt things. By how???

By learning more ..deeply about our religion such as attend any religion classes or listening or watching religion channel and so on. Always recite Al-Quran and never ever leave the one that a must things is Solat. By praying to Allah..we can avoid ourselves from being exposed to those bad things instead of strongly built our faith or trust to Allah. I’m speaking on the side of Muslims. To those non-muslims…. No idea. I have no idea about ur religion. But from wut I read..heard..most of you are having a random sex almost every day. It seems like nuting for ya all. Just like a normal..or best word trend among teenagers.

Talking about religion..i’ve once had chat with this one stranger guy from skype who out of nowhere suddenly approached me and wanted to make friend with me. And he is a Christian with black skin. Probably not as dark as negros’. As wut he told me. But I’m sure sum of u once or twice had been approached by sumone through skype right. And we talked a lot. I mean we chat . but I wasn’t alone. Coincidently, Aja was at my room. So, she joined me chatting with that guy. Quite freaky. At first I wanted to block. But then since aja was there,I just thought that why dunt we had sum chat with him. Mostly he talked about his religion all those things.. and we got at least a few information about him’s. so yah… at last..when Aja wanted to go back her house.. I straight away block him.. haha..

I think dats all. I talked toooo much already.. I mean type.

Sekian..

Salam~~

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2 Comments:

Blogger Alia Liverpool said...

biarkan mereka.
tau buat.tau responsibily.
hssh.
and also.
dia man utd fan.
jgn kisah.haha

March 1, 2009 at 6:09:00 PM GMT+2  
Blogger bbturates said...

hehe..tu la psl..
ceh..nak gak liverpool dier..
alia..rindu awak..
:)

March 2, 2009 at 1:46:00 AM GMT+2  

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